Everyday I meet people who want to make it in their lives. [ad#ad-16]Everyone wants to be Rich , Successful , and live happily ever after , but don’t know where to start.This post is dedicated to all the young and energetic creatures who want to become winners. And before going any further I must tell you Why you should listen to me.
I consider myself successful. Without getting a cent from my parents ,at the age of 23 I am running a business which gives me a net profit of RS150,000 – Rs200,000 every month. And I managed to start it with only Rs 18000/= in my bank account and I know if I quit university studies right now , My Net income will boost by at least 300% . Even if you do better than me, It is worth reading the post below since it will definitely boost your morale and you will end up earning more than you are earning right now.
Let’s face it. You will not become rich by doing a job. Yes, it is much secure. Yes, it has benefits .Yes, Everyone in their life should do a job at least once . And yes, There is a slight chance that you will do okay by the end of your career. But the only way your bank account gets filthy fat is when you giving other people jobs. When you ARE the BOSS the opportunities are Endless!!!
Most people don’t want to be winners.
I know that sounds absolutely stupid but people are so obsessed with the idea of staying in their comfort zone, (Doing the job. ) winning isn’t really an option.
Psychologists say that the strongest human trigger is survival. People want to survive, as soon as someone comes along and offers them an opportunity to leave their comfort zone they clam up and make a million excuses.
I want you to immediately commit to winning. Most people in life are losers. Face it.
Most of people absolutely hate working for the other people, and dream of running their own business and becoming financially independent.
Unfortunately they never get around to that point. They are far to busy dreaming about success… to actually put in the necessary steps to winning.
That’s why you need to declare right now.
I’m going to build my business… Whether I have to stay up to 2am everyday… I WILL do anything ethical to get there!”
Seriously remember that, and say it over and over again in your mind.
Heck, stick the damn thing on your computer screen or on your fridge.
I want you to see it everyday. Constantly saying it and being reminded of your commitment will help you achieve it.
From a very early age we had people poison us with their restrictive thinking.
“Oh you’ll never be a doctor, we’re simple farmers… don’t get your hopes up.”
“You? Going to start a business and become a millionaire. Ha…Ha…Ha. Stick to your day job buddy”.
Then after a while we begin to wonder whether we deserve success. Why do I deserve to be making RS 100,000 a month? I’m just me.
Damn it. You deserve success if you’re willing to work your butt off to get it.
Listen most people are losers. Stay away from people who put you down, they are negative influences in your life.
Those putting you down are just looking for a way for them to feel okay about themselves and their boring and average lives.
In fact if you don’t have anyone you know who will be excited and optimistic about your upcoming life as an Entrepreneur. Don’t mention it to anyone.
Seriously the last thing you need is someone playing Devils Advocate.
You need to surround yourself by Winners
This is the exact opposite. Seriously go and find some people who are already successful and introduce yourself.
Join my goddamn blog and befriend with me :-).
Like I mentioned before you want to stay away from the cynical “ground based” losers who ain’t going anywhere fast.
Don’t Dream… Imagine…

Alright I know this sounds like B.S. But Envisioning Success before it happens is PROVEN to give you the motivation to succeed.
You see I want you to imagine what your dream life would look like when your business is successful.
Imagine the car you’re going to drive.
Your house.
Your Friends and the people you’ll hang out with.
What you’ll do with your spare time.
And what’s more I want you to write it all down. When you write things down they become 10x more powerful. I’ve heard this called the “Law of Paper”.
Write down everything you ever wanted. Keep adding to this list, if you ever see anything you want… Write it down!
And whenever you get in a difficult spot in your business you’ll get the instant motivation you need to achieve success.
Do it, it works.
Setting Goals. (This is not your CIMA lesson )
This is important. This challenge is about building a Rs 100,000 a month business in just 90 days. That’s a realistic goal.
However that shouldn’t be the end of your business.
No way! Staying at that income level would just mean you were stuck in your comfort zone again, and we both know that’s a BIG no-no for success.
Set goals of what you want your business to look like after 4 months… 6 months etc…
Get Serious
Listen, the next 90 days won’t always be fun. But business isn’t always fun. It’s often long and hard work. That’s why you need to get serious.
Most people I run into trying to make money and doing it for the “entertainment value”.
Dreaming about making money is just something they do in their lunch breaks and weekends. But if Prison Break comes on… Wow, forget internet marketing… There’s more important things in life.
Well listen, if you’re not willing to skip television and start burning the midnight oil… perhaps you should consider setting up a lemonade store or delivering pizza.
Most people spend way to much time complaining. Way too much time checking their emails. Way to much time on face book and swaying from one porn site to another porn site.
It’s time to Get Serious people.
We’re building a business here, it’s not a game. Get serious or go and wear a dress.
Only the strongest and most serious will survive.
Boast your Confidence and Self Esteem
Having High Self Esteem is about being comfortable about who you are.
No matter what you look like, whatever your sexuality, whatever your race or whatever your social class.
This is important because insecure people usually make bad decisions, at the best!
And I mean at the best, because the majority of the time they’re too insecure to make a choice.
I once saw a metaphorical story on internet about a man who wanted to change the world, but died a stranger.
On his death bed he said,
“Since I was a young boy I wanted to change the world, first I tried to convince the country… Nobody listened.
Then I tried to Change my City… The same happened… Then finally as age caught on I tried to change my family. Now on my death bed I realized my mistake.
If I had of changed myself from the inside, maybe I could have changed my family and with their help… the City… And with that support the Country.”
I’ve no idea were I heard that, but the point it still as clear as pure water. You need to work on yourself first before you can motivate anyone else.
Without believing in yourself, you will never be able to convince anyone to buy your products, joint venture with you, lend you money or anything else!
One of the most powerful ways to gain confidence is to know that what you are doing is improving the world.
You must honestly feel good about what you’re selling, don’t ever sell anything your ashamed of.
You could probably make a ton of money lying to your market, but eventually you’ll grow to hate yourself. And you’ll be just a shell of your former.
Also whenever you get down about something remember. Your special, nobody else is like you. You have something unique to offer to the world even if you don’t know it.
Another thing that’s proven to build self-confidence is silently repeating “I like myself” over and over. Try it; you won’t believe how much it works. You all have the ability to do something.You all should be winners. START NOW !!! There are endless business opportunities available for you to grab. When you make it and if you come back and share your story here , May be in 3 months, May be in 6 months, May be in 2 years ,I ll be the happiest creature in the world. Cheers to all your Success.
This post is getting longer and longer .So I think I should stop for today. But if you encourage me I will go even further with some business ideas I have in mind and will post in my blog. May be some readers here can get together and start developing the ideas to real work.But only if you encourage me to do so by participating in the comment section below.If you like this post, bookmark my blog if you haven’t already done so. It will worth it. I guarantee.
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One of the greatest things about blogging is that we could share our life experiences and learn from everyones successes and mistakes. I have cancer and had a large tumour on my spine, everyone was not sure if I would walk as I lost the use of my legs. But pray’s and been positive has helped me back to normal so that I could have a normal life for myself and my family.
I like your style of writting and wish you all the best. Good intensions always draw a blessing and I believe it’s true. I for one would like to see more of your writting and share your opinion that being positive is the only way that anyone could make a difference from the normal way life just flows.
Please share your thought and ideas, may be it will even help me.
@ johann,
Dear sir,Thank you very much for your kind words.
I am very sorry to hear your situation and in a way I am glad that you somehow recovered to lead a normal life again. After what you have gone through it must be really difficult. May I know how old are you and Are you from sriLanka?
And about my writing style of this post, I didn’t want to sweet talk anyone. For trigger some parts of the brain we have to use a strong language.I am expecting both negative and positive feed back and I am glad we could start off with such kind words.Thank you very much.
Awesome post man,
It made me jump up from my seat and do something. Check your email bro, Your assistance is much appreciated regarding that matter,
Thanks.
hey bro,
Are you sure you are from SriLanka , I didn’t know that you guys can do stuff up to international standards…Ur blog is outstanding. keep up the good work man, by the way I am natz frind, She gave me the link.. remember, u wanted to get ur iphone unlocked last year…Haven’t seen u on msn after that chat dude,what happened?
Wish you all the best brother #
hey bro…itz very much true..i too think i’m unique.but as u tld da only think dat stop me from getin 2 ma targets is i lov fun lif mor…but itz tim.me 2 in uni 2.but stil parents pay for ma things n i only earn very little a month.soo i think itz show time.i too wanna go top.but truly i dnt hv a clear path.(always i’m hvin some crazy new ideas but 2 do dat i need a capital so der r stil on ma pending list)..so can u tell from where v shud begin??pls jz let us kno one or two of ur busines ideas…
thanz bro…
such an inspirational writing….I also have few ideas and i know it is time to get in to action…Being a girl it wont help to start something from the scratch..Wish I knew someone like you…Anyway I will start working on few things.Will definitively post here the updates,,Congratulations on a very beautiful website.And yes, Marshi,Srilankans are talented. :-)
dude write another 1 for sure
Hey,
This is a fabulously inspiring post!
Great post brother! thanks for the bookmark and sure thing, il be more than happy to put up a link to ur blog on mine..peace out and keep it going!
Wow!!! First of all i must say that I’m glad that i have subscribes for your site feed and this post is make my day :D. Go on buddy… write your next post, we all are with you.
@ lady divine
Thank you , Your comment is much appreciated,
@ The Whackster,
Thanks bro, you too ..Keep up the good work.
@ shabith
Thank you shabith , good to c u all are with me…
you can certainly inspire someone.Submitted to Digg..My way of saying thank you for the post,
Wow, great post. was expecting a get rich scheme but got moral juice instead. thanx machan,
The best ever Sri Lankan Blog that i have ever visited. Keep up the good work.
What a writing style !!!! exceptional …..
Currently i don’t have any negative comments ….if so i will shoot them out also….
Best Regards
Chathura DH
DH
@ planet Apex,
Thanks machan, added you to my blog roll, i was cleaning it up by removing some loosers :-)
@ chathura
Thanks bro,much appreciated.all though, i have a long way to go since this is only the 6 Th day of my blog. Have to improve ranks , seo ,content,visitors and much much more.. But nice to here people thuink this way.Best of luck to your web site too.
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This is a very inspirational article. You make a good success coach. Also I really like your blog’s design!
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Dude. this is one awesome post. I have been utterly and totally inspired. I lived my life being overshadowed by others and hiding my true self. I have been suffering and since recently I have decided to take a stand, and do what I want. Your post was the added push I needed. Thanks so much.
I regret admitting that I have been what you have referred to as a loser. But not anymore, I’m going to do achieve my dreams somehow, no matter what anyone says. Thanks again! Keep up the good work.
@FRGT10
Thanks bro. This my favorite post so far. I have had my doubts before publishing this because I have used some strong language here. And I know most sri lankans do not like to get pushed and might get offended. But I went ahead and published it anyway.And I am glad I did that. This is the post which had given me most back links, most emails, true subscribers, featured in many blog carnivals and I am more than happy if someone says they got inspired by this. Go for IT brother. No one can hold you back….
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Came across your blog for the first time. Nice to meet a fellow Sri Lankan blogger!
Your blog offers useful gems. This was a truly inspiring post.
hay brother, It was a nice sight to me as so far I watched. And it’s a great and well managed written way. All the best brother. we are waiting for your next updated post.
thnx.
AMRM
Hello,
You’ve inspired me dearfully. I currently run a business and have been looking for another business venture to pursue. Not quite sure what that exaclty will be, but you did give me a kick to pursue. Great inspirational writing skills. We need more people like you in this world. You’re awesome!
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